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It’s always necessary to know when a stage of our life finishes. If you insist to stay on it, more time than needed, you lose the happiness and the meaning of the rest.

Closing circles, or closing doors, or closing chapters. As you want to call them, the important is to be able to close them, let go moments of the life that are closing.
You were fired of the job? The relationship finished?, You don’t live anymore at home?, You must travel?, The friendship finished? You can spend a lot of time of your present “wallowing” into the “whys”, rewinding the tape and trying to understand why happened this or that. The wastage will be infinite because in the life, you, me, your friends, your sons, your brothers, all of us we are bounded to close chapters, to browse the next page, to finish stages, or moments of the life and keep going ahead.

We cannot be in the present missing the past. Neither asking ourselves why. What happened, happened, and must let it go, must release it, must discard it. We cannot be children forever, or late teens, or employees of companies that doesn’t exist anymore, neither have link with who don’t want to have link with us. No. Things happen, and must let them go! That’s why sometimes is so important to destroy memories, throw away some gifts, change the house, break papers, throw away documents, sell or give some books. The external changes can symbolize internal overcoming process. Let it go, release, discard. In the life nobody know his cards, and we must learn to lose and to win

We must let go, must browse the page; we must live only what we have in the present. The past already passed. Don’t wait it to come back, don’t wait them to recognize you, don’t ever wait them to realize who you are. Release the resentment, the only thing you get when you turn on your “personal TV” to think and think on the same thing, is hurt mentally yourself f, poison yourself, fester yourself.

Life is ahead, never behind. Because if you go in life